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what to expect

When you come in to view your images for the first time, you may cry. Because, honestly? You've never seen yourself this way before. You've never been able to see past the baby weight you haven't lost, or the newly formed scars showing your body's growth, or the wrinkles that seemed to have appeared overnight.


But this time, Beautiful Woman, you will see yourself in a completely different light. You will realize that you ARE indeed beautiful. You ARE worthy of good relationships. YOU ARE UNSTOPPABLE. So - you might cry a little. I've seen it before and will see it again. It's an entirely new feeling when you begin to love yourself a little more. That's it. One day of PURE BLISS followed by a washing away of all the negative self-talk you've had for years. THIS is your new beginning.


I believe all women are pretty without makeup-

but with the right makeup, can be pretty powerful.


~ Bobbi Brown


your boudoir experience

If you're looking for an experience that will boost your confidence, you're in the right place!

We are dedicated to creating a luxurious boudoir experience that's all about you!


The first step is to book your phone call. During your FREE Phone Consultation, we'll chat about your vision for the session. This is when we'll schedule the date of your shoot. You'll also begin receiving emails that will help you prepare well for your session!



I always say that it's more nerve-wracking to anticipate your shoot than it is to actually participate! But rest assured, that after about 5 minutes, you'll start to get into your groove - get ready to take that sexy feeling home with you!


After your session, we'll book a date for you to come back to view your images in a slideshow. This is when you'll decide which images you want for your Album and Wall Art and pay for your prodcuts. Be prepared, because you're going to LOVE them all!!!

she remembered who she was and

everything changed.

the woman behind the lens...

I'm Cyndee. A wife of 16 years, married to a man I serendipitously met on a trip to Kenya in 1999. We have three beautiful children who keep us on our toes. I love to travel (both with family and by myself), meet friends for coffee and spend time with family.

I began Ashki Photography in June of 2007, shortly after our son was born and quickly fell in love with portrait photography. I began the Boudoir Defined division in 2018 after seeing a photography need for women just like me - in the throws of life!

I'm a passionate person who's passionate about people. I love being behind the lens, creating a portrait that helps you truly see who's in front. What are you waiting for?

being sexy is all about attitude;

not body type. it's a state of mind.

what they're saying...

Brunette woman in pearls lookin down to the side

Miss J

When I saw the photos at the end of the session, I completely started to cry. She captured me in a way that I've never seen on camera. To see how she captured me through her lens was incredible and empowering.


I usually tend to pick apart myself in pictures, but this time I saw myself in a new light. Not only did I FEEL beautiful during the session, the photos of me WERE beautiful.


Love your body. Don't compare yourself to HER. Love the woman you are inside and out because God made you just the way you are and He doesn't make mistakes. Embrace your gifts and use them so you can give others the freedom to do the same.

Miss A


After my session, I felt like a goddess. I felt comfortable in my own skin and BEAUTIFUL. I was able to see what others see in myself.


I would ABSOLUTELY encourage ANYONE to do a session - especially those who may be in need of a confidence boost to get more in tune with their alluring side and natural femininity!I’m still young...but I wish I could have told my younger self to ignore what people say - don’t let your role meodels be girls you see on Instagram, and always ALWAYS love yourself. If you feel out of tune with yourself and like you’re losing your self love, do something to fix it immediately vs forcing yourself to get comfortable with your negative thoughts.

Brunette woman on back on purple fur in white lingerie

Miss H


I wanted to have Photographs taken because I am at a reflective time in my life and I wanted something powerful, personal and defining.


Having this session challenged me to see myself in a different way, to be more comfortable with myself, and to consider that maybe all the little flaws I obsess over aren't really flaws at all.


I wish I could tell my younger self not to waste time criticizing yourself, comparing yourself or being unhappy with how you look.


Everyone should have the experience of having a boudoir session with Cyndee. She makes you feel comfortable and beautiful. It's a unique experience.

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We take the privacy of our clients very seriously. All images are shown with permission.

To see before and after transformations, click HERE .

frequently asked questions


What to wear is one of the most common questions we get. When you book with Boudoir Defined, you'll receive emails that will give you ideas on where to shop, what to look for and how to dress for your body type! You also receive access to Boudoir Defined's Client Closet & Shoe Collection! Clients have been known to send Cyndee text images of themselves while their shopping to see if what they're looking at will photograph well! You'll be super prepared by the time your session is here!



I KNOW! All of Boudoir Defined's clients look like models, it's true. But they are every day women, in the throws of life, just like you and me! We have seen every body shape, size and color and each woman is truly beautiful - yes, you too, Gorgeous!


This is one of the best things about your boudoir session! Our hair and makeup artists come right on site and take care of you from start to finish. Feel free to take a look at the transformations they've made over the last few sessions!


We at Boudoir Defined are PASSIONATE about Boudoir Photography and the potential life-changing experience it can offer! For that reason, we take credit cards, offer in-house payment plans, offer a 5% cash discount and allow payments to go toward your session Boudie Bank before your shoot. For more details, schedule your free phone consultation below!


let's connect

I'm so glad you're here! Have you thought about having your own Boudoir Session? I'd love to chat with you a little more about that. You can either click HERE for a phone consult or leave your information and I'll get back with you!

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